In marriage and in relationships it is difficult to admit that “it takes two.” Here are three reasons to forgive and save a relationship.
1) If you don’t solve the problem that was at the root of the infidelity it may manifest itself in other ways and even other relationships.
2) Forgiveness saves your health. Angry, bitter women determined to “get even” will find that hostility is a predictor of heart attacks — as I have documented in previous articles.
3) When children are involved, you may wish to put aside the hurt, and take some time to consider how divorce will affect them.
Here is a quote from an article in the Huffington Post with regard to forgiveness after an affair.
The part the injured partner played may be small, but a relationship is made of two people. If something goes wrong, it’s happened to both people. ” Sarah Harrison: Why You Shouldn’t Necessarily Leave a Cheating Husband
For the full story please go to: Infidelity: 3 reasons to forgive and save your marriage
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