With Passover and Easter —holy days and holidays of religious celebration—it is a good time to rekindle love at what my Grandmother called, “the welcome table,” a place for family. She believed that at the table you learned to “read” people— from the expressions on their faces, the questions they asked or did not ask, from their laughter, smiles, snickers, and silence. But in this pandemic year, dining with family can be a challenge.
What each of us should try to consider is recreating a feeling of family meals — either on Zoom or outdoor visits or simple drive by visits. And make a date as soon as possible to bring family and extended family together.
The dining room table gave us a lesson in relationships, in unconditional love, and relationships. It is also at the table that children and parents can bond in a meaningful way.
Strengthening families
Research studies indicate that only 40 to 50 percent of families have dinner together just two or three times a week.
Eating meals together is not just about raising healthy children, it is about raising the bar on togetherness. As we move into a 24/7 Smart Phone society, we miss the moments around a table when people come to know each other just a little bit better—where attachments help strengthen love and loyalty.
A table is a good place for couples in love and marriage to communicate. Is it any wonder that “come to the table” is an expression used in business negotiations?
As families come to the table to share Easter and Passover — in whatever form is healthy this year — it might be a good time to reflect on the tradition and the benefits. It might even help families come closer to an understanding of unconditional love. No agenda necessary. The welcome table has only one requirement — your presence.
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