We often write about ways to spice up marriage intimacy. From sexy lingerie to tantra sex to pushing the envelope. I have even written about ways to change a bedroom look to enhance loving.Well according to some new reports, women would rather see their man’s hands in soapy dishwater than slathered in sexy lotion — at least before getting to the bedroom.This from CNN.com, “Want to get lucky tonight, Guys? The art of chore-play adds sparkling sex to marriage