Martha Graham — dancer and choreographer, whom I wrote about in one of my books — had a definition of spontaneity. To paraphrase, she was once asked, “How can you be so spontaneous?”
She replied, “Spontaneity took years of practice.”
This is your chance to plan a spontaneously passionate “Trick or Treat” week-end for Halloween or anytime of year. And be sure you take a few strip tease lessons for the fun ot it. Then set the date for a getaway to heat up romance and spice up intimacy
But for now look ahead for planned spontaneity.
The Preparation
- Find a romantic inn or hotel.
- Set a time when you and your husband or lover can escape for at least two days.
- Pack some champagne.
- Buy yourself a wild negligee or peek-a-boo bra with a matching thong. Sexy Biz: Dreamgirl International wins Lingerie Manufacturer of the Year, 2009 StorErotica Awards from our Sex and Relationships Examiner
- Or choose a sexy red dress, a feather boa and long gloves.
- Buy something silky for your guy.
- Practice a strip tease.
The Plan
- Your goal is to relax, unwind, and create a memory.
- For your first night, dine out.
- The second night, order room service.
- Play some very sexy music Steamy sex tips # 4: set the mood with music says our Charlotte Love and Marriage Examiner (and maybe a CD of “The Stripper” which always sets the mood).
- Then the two of you should dress in totally sexy attire. Pop the champagne. And then surprise him with an elegant strip tease.
Perhaps a photo or two
The strip tease might also peak his interest in some sexy poses that the two of you might enjoy. Nude vs. naked poses for lovers only
The goal here is to create a memory and set the stage for passionate loving away from home that you can carry back to your own bedroom. (If you choose Halloween, it will be a Trick or Treat to remember!)
Here are some other suggestions that I have written about.
- Passion Tips: sexy bedrooms for erotic loving
- Passion Tips: your erotic and romantic love story
- Passion Tips: hot flirting for sexy wives and lovers
- Erotic fantasies: tips to temptation and passion
- Passion Picks: here’s to sexy, spicy loving
- Passion Picks: how to keep him loving instead of cheating
- Passion Picks: playfully erotic slideshows heat up loving
Many Examiners are writing about Halloween — I encourage you to read all of their articles.
(Do you have some passionate advice?” Please send me a link and I am happy to include it in a wrap up.)
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