We are facing challenging times. In trying to recover from pandemic restrictions, we have become a “Them” and “Us” society. Despite science, we are faced with those opposed to mask wearing and vaccines. Read through social media and even families are feeling split apart. Sometimes there is even a strain between lovers.
Now with new season upon us, Spring Fever is about to set in. We may want to find love.
In our heart of hearts, we all know what we should be doing to bring love and harmony into our own lives and the lives of those around us. Simple words from ancient philosophers have long revealed secrets that we should live by.
- Speak kindly to everyone you meet. We all carry a heavy burden. (Be kind; for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.)
- Wish blessings to others, even those who hurt you.
- Be forgiving of everyone who has ever hurt you, and most especially forgive yourself instead of admonishing yourself by saying “Why didn’t I?”
- Express your love to those whom you really love, instead of saying, “They know I love them”
- Form the words, ” I love you.”
- Remind yourself often throughout the day that those you love are a gift and you have no idea just how long they will be yours to cherish.
- Let go of anger.
- Be kind. As Massachusetts poet, philosopher, and lecturer Ralph Waldo Emerson has said: “You cannot do a kindness too soon, because you never know how soon it will be too late.”
According to VanderDrift and Agnew, Journal of Personality and Social Psychology:
“Individuals balance tasks necessary to fulfill personal goals and to maintain their interpersonal relationships.”
However, to do so might require a change in thinking. As Spring Fever approaches, many people are looking for love. And I begin thinking of the words of the late Leo Buscaglia, author of Love. He often reminded us that if we are waiting for the one and only, “I guarantee you’ll wait forever! There is no right person. You become the right person!”
In the hustle and bustle of our overly committed lives, do we ever remember to take time to listen for love instead of waiting for the “one and only” love? Do we show love and express loving-kindness to friends, family, and even strangers in need?
Copyright 2021 Rita Watson