If you are searching for Mr. Right, it can be heartbreaking to find that he too is searching for HIS own Mr. Right. 
The New York Times looked at this issue several years ago. And we will be presenting a story by Times’ writer Aliyah Baruchin about down-low behavior, (DL or discreet level) which has been making the Internet rounds these past few months. It is about men leading double lives. There is very little research on the subject.
Why more articles on same-sex marriage and gay and straight? Because I am receiving emails telling me that I am too one-sided. That may be true, but as I have said earlier and often, I am neutral but opinionated.
As such, to be more informative, we present here some help from Kerri Johnson, PhD, an associate professor at UCLA.
Here is the TIMES article Gay, Straight, or Lying?
And here is a link to Kerri Johnson which will bring you to the following links:
- Gay or Straight from Science Daily
- Sexual Orientation from Physorg.com
- MSNBC.com Watch his Walk
- Body language speaks louder than words
An often asked question is this one “Can you live with a man who is homosexual or bisexual?” I think we have seen that series — It was called Will and Grace. However, watch for more news and opinion on this topic.
You may wonder about the issue of infidelity. That is another topic with regard to making the decision to live with a bisexual man or women. Some couples can do this comfortably. See my column on Open Marriage. Others call it cheating, but it is more complicated. Nonetheless here is a link to Why People Cheat with a note at the end.
Copyright 2008 Rita Watson