Nothing in the world of appearances can help us find love — and detach ourselves from deception — with the same clarity as our own inner voice. Men call it hunches. Women call intuition.
We often think of intuition as that “funny feeling inside” when something is going wrong. But it can work miracles for you. Hotel chain magnate Conrad Hilton played his hunches and built his empire.
Golf champion Jack Nicklaus dreamed of the swing that lifted him out of a slump and perfected his game.
What does this have to do with relationships? The point is simple. If turning over a problem to the creative psyche can lead to a hotel chain, a championship golf game, and a Nobel Prize (yes the nerve impulse experiment of Physicist Otto Loewi) just think of what it can do to improve your relationships.
In fact the possibilities are only limited by the boundaries of your imagination. Intuition needs a higher pedestal
The problem with intuition is that most people only think about it as a warning. In a failed relationship, so many people say “I never saw it coming.” Yet when they rethink the situation they admit:
- “I suppose we talked about it, but I didn’t want to believe what I was hearing.”
- “I sensed that something was missing, but I thought it was my fault.”
- “I was always suspicious, but I couldn’t exactly tell you why.”
But those who face themselves honestly will admit “I knew it. I just knew it.”
So here we are back to honesty again. It is time to retrain your instincts so that you can hear the voice inside you lead you to a more positive place. That postive place is one of honesty within our own hears.