There is a saying, “I have often had to apologize for my words, but never for my silence.” When it comes to talking about your ex, it is best to say nothing rather than trash talk him.I have said often in my postings, “Watch your words, and don’t play the abuse card looking for sympathy as a way to reel in a guy.: Everyone in your life is someone whom you chose to be with for a reason. If it didn’t work out, be grateful that you are out of that relationship and moving on.
Men like women who are upbeat and positive. And in fact, try to find one good thing about your ex and even you will feel better about yourself.
When you are negative, you invite negativity into your life. Looking on the bright side will help you keep yourself open to new opportunities and possibilities. And when you meet someone new, let your best spirit, your happiest personality captivate him. Six don’ts when dating
Copyright 2008 Rita Watson