Ok, you are head over heels. Now what? Do you proceed cautiously or do you dare to do something out of character? First clear the path for new love. Here is how.
- Let go of worn out friendships and relationships — the downers.
- Break old patterns that really hinder your happiness — overscheduling, overwork.
- Make a change – change something – your hair, your furniture, the way your office is set up. Do something so you can see yourself differently.
- Take yourself yourself less seriously.
- Be more forgiving or yourself.
- Be more forgiving of others without losing your sense of self or your values.
Now what? Then tell a friend whose opinions you value about your new love and about the doubts. Or if you are trying to decide between one of two people, a friend can help. Just make sure the friend is a cheerleader who will help you move forward even while pointing out the red flags. \
However, if you are listening for love — and clearing the path in your heart of hearts you will know the truth.
Copyright 2008 Rita Watson