Author: Rita Watson

In marriage and in relationships it is difficult to admit that “it takes two.”   Here are three reasons to forgive and save a relationship. 1) If you don’t solve the problem that was at the root of the infidelity it may manifest itself in other ways and even other relationships. 2) Forgiveness saves your health. …

There are often stories about the value of human touch.  During these tough financial times, which seem to keep dragging on,  instead of wringing our hands, perhaps we should be reaching out and hugging. When the financial world looked as if it was going belly up several years ago Sharon Jayson for USA Today wrote…

The big three love secrets are quite simple: 1. Maintain positive illusions 2. Be loyal and forgiving each day 3. Re-ignite that oxytocin Dr. Scott Haltzman says that natural highs “can produce excitatory neurochemicals that the brain interprets as excitement about your partner, not the activity.”  He tells us that: Making love –sex produces a…

The man who wrote the book called “LOVE” was Dr. Leo Buscaglia.  It is not a new book, but rather one whose words endure. He told others:  “It’s not enough to have lived. We should be determined to live for something. May I suggest that it be creating joy for others, sharing what we have…

Choosing happiness over hostility is healthier for minds and bodies.  Numerous studies tell us what we know intuitively, smiling makes us feel better, and may even be preventive medicine. Here are thoughts from Gretchen Rubin: The Happiness Project She says, “Many couples try to ‘solve’ their problems, when in fact, many problems can’t be solved….

Romance is in the air.  After writing about 13 Romance tips, and then 7 more — most of which I had gleaned from past experience or suggestions from friends — it was fun to see that Ashton Kutcher offered a romance tip for lovers in this age of texting and Twittering.  It was one of…

When Oprah Winfrey talked with Barbara Walters about her relationship with Gayle King, she began to cry. “She is the mother I never had. She is the sister everybody would want. She is the friend that everybody deserves. I don’t know a better person.” [When Walters pressed her as to why she was overcome with…

When you begin looking for ways to make another person happy and feel loved, the feeling becomes almost intoxicating.  You suddenly begin to try to really outdo yourself in terms of romantic gestures.  Here are more ideas: 1.   Order personalized candy such as M and Ms that say, “I love u” 2.   Order  Tee shirts…

As an incurable romantic,  I love ideas to heat up romance.  Here are my Top 12 suggestions: Say to your love when you awake in the morning:  “What can I do for you today that will make your life easier and less stressful?”  then do it. Leave a love note on the bathroom mirror. Write…